How to make a date successful? Hundreds of books have been written about it and as many training videos have been shot. And the most important rule indicated in them says — be attentive to your partner. During the meeting, there should be nothing more important than him — no news or calls from friends. True, judging by the experience of our heroine, not everyone follows this testament.
Ọpọlọpọ awọn ọmọbirin ni atokọ gbogbo ti awọn ọjọ ti ko ni aṣeyọri lakoko eyiti nkan kan ti jẹ aṣiṣe: irisi ẹlẹgbẹ ko baamu fọto rẹ lori aaye naa, ibi ipade ko ṣaṣeyọri, tabi alabaṣepọ funrararẹ di ajeji… Ṣugbọn awọn ipo bii Emily lati Los Angeles, ṣẹlẹ loorekoore. O kere ju Mo fẹ gbagbọ.
Emily saw her companion not for the first time — their acquaintance took place two days before the date: “I was standing in line at the bar, and he came up and spoke to me. And I felt very comfortable.”
As a result, the girl gave her phone number to a new acquaintance, but it was not him who aroused her interest, but his friend — Emily expected that they would spend time together, and then she would get to know him better. But she failed to put the plan into action.
X-day has come. “When he suggested that we meet for dinner, I thought that we would gather with the whole company,” the narrator explained. — When I realized that we were left alone, it was too late to retreat. And I thought it was worth giving him a chance.»
Ipade naa ko lọ daradara lati ibẹrẹ. Ọdọmọkunrin naa sọrọ ni gbogbo igba nipa ara rẹ, nipa ifẹ rẹ lati ṣiṣe ikanni youtube kan pẹlu awọn imọran aṣa fun awọn ọkunrin, ati paapaa sọ asọye lori ifarahan ẹlẹgbẹ rẹ. Ati ki o si bẹrẹ flirting… pẹlu awọn waitress. Eyi ti Emily ṣe igbasilẹ lori fidio, nigbamii ti o fiweranṣẹ lori TikTok.
And then “everything got even better” — according to the narrator, the waitress answered the flirtation, not paying attention to the fact that the girl was next to them.
Emily’s first thought was revenge — she noted that she wanted to ask the guy to buy her a drink, and then go flirt with someone else in front of him. But the girl did not do this. She just talked to another woman and went home.
Itan fidio Emily yarayara di olokiki ati pe o ju ẹgbẹrun awọn asọye lọ. Ọ̀pọ̀lọpọ̀ ni ó yà wá lẹ́nu pé ọmọbìnrin náà dúró sí ilé ọtí náà, tí ó sì jẹ́ kí wọ́n máa tage lẹ́gbẹ̀ẹ́ rẹ̀, dípò kí wọ́n lọ ní kíákíá.
Someone even sided with the guy: “Maybe you weren’t interesting enough? If you played on the phone or made him «pull» the conversation on you, then this is your problem. But it’s not. According to Emily, the counterpart called her several times after that meeting, but she did not answer him. And who is not interested here?
O dara lati mọ pe ohun gbogbo pari daradara. Olùbánisọ̀rọ̀ náà sọ pé ìtàn yìí kò bí òun nínú, kò sì yí òun padà kúrò lọ́dọ̀ àwọn ojúlùmọ̀ tuntun. Ní òdì kejì ẹ̀wẹ̀, ní àkókò díẹ̀ lẹ́yìn náà, ó ní ìpàdé “ìyanu” kan pẹ̀lú ẹni “ìyanu” kan. A le nikan ro pe titun Companion mọ awọn ofin ti o dara ọjọ. Kò sì bá ẹnikẹ́ni tage bí kò ṣe ọmọbìnrin náà.