Thor, Harry Potter, Superman — it’s understandable why we like positive images. But why do we find villains attractive? Why do you sometimes even want to be like them? We deal with the psychologist Nina Bocharova.
The attractive images of Voldemort, Loki, Darth Vader and other «dark» heroes touch some hidden strings in us. Sometimes it seems to us that they are like us — after all, they were rejected, humiliated, neglected in the same way. There is a feeling that for those who are “on the bright side of the force”, life was initially much easier.
“Awọn akọni ati awọn onibajẹ ko han nikan: o jẹ nigbagbogbo ipade ti awọn ilodi meji, awọn agbaye meji. Àti pé lórí ìforígbárí yìí ti àwọn ìdìtẹ̀ ogun ti àwọn fíìmù alágbàáyé, a kọ àwọn ìwé,” Nina Bocharova onímọ̀ àròjinlẹ̀ ṣàlàyé. "Ti ohun gbogbo ba han gbangba pẹlu awọn ohun kikọ to dara, lẹhinna kilode ti awọn abuku ṣe nifẹ si oluwo naa, kilode ti diẹ ninu awọn gba ẹgbẹ “dudu” wọn ki o da awọn iṣe wọn lare?”
Nipa idanimọ pẹlu apanirun, eniyan laimọkan n gbe pẹlu rẹ iriri ti kii yoo ti gba ararẹ laelae.
The fact is that the «bad guys» have charisma, strength, cunning. They were not always bad; circumstances often made them so. At least we find an excuse for their unseemly acts.
"Awọn ohun kikọ odi, gẹgẹbi ofin, jẹ ẹdun pupọ, igboya, lagbara, ọlọgbọn. Nigbagbogbo o ṣe itara, fa iwulo ati mu oju,” Nina Bocharova sọ. Awon aburo ko bi, won se. Ko si buburu ati rere: nibẹ ni o wa awọn inilara, awọn ita, awọn ti a kọsẹ. Ati idi fun eyi jẹ ayanmọ ti o nira, ibalokan inu ọkan ti o jinlẹ. Ninu eniyan, eyi le fa aanu, aanu ati ifẹ lati ṣe atilẹyin.
Each of us goes through different stages in life, experiences our own traumas, gains experience. And when we look at bad heroes, learn about their past, we unwittingly try it on ourselves. Let’s take the same Voldemort — his father abandoned him, his mother committed suicide, did not think about her son.
Compare his story with the story of Harry Potter — his mother protected him with her love, and knowing this helped him survive and win. It turns out that the villain Voldemort did not receive this power and such love. He knew from childhood that no one would ever help him …
“If you look at these stories through the prism of the Karpman triangle, we will see that in the past, negative characters often ended up in the role of the Victim, after which, as happens in the drama triangle, they tried on the role of the Persecutor in order to continue the series of transformations,” says expert. — The viewer or reader can find in the «bad» hero some part of his personality. Perhaps he himself went through something similar and, sympathizing with the character, will play out his experiences.
Ni idanimọ pẹlu apanirun, eniyan laimọkan n gbe pẹlu rẹ iriri ti kii yoo ti gba ararẹ laelae. Ó sì ń ṣe é nípasẹ̀ ìfọ̀rọ̀rora-ẹni-wò àti ìtìlẹ́yìn. Nigbagbogbo a ko ni igbẹkẹle ara ẹni, ati pe, gbiyanju lori aworan ti akọni “buburu”, a gba igboya ainipẹkun rẹ, ipinnu, ati ifẹ.
O jẹ ọna ti ofin lati ṣe afihan ifasilẹ rẹ ati awọn ikunsinu ati awọn ẹdun nipasẹ itọju fiimu tabi itọju ailera iwe.
A rebel wakes up in us who wants to rebel against an unjust world. Our Shadow raises its head, and, watching the «bad guys», we can no longer hide it from ourselves and others.
“A person can be attracted by the villain’s freedom of expression, his courage and extraordinary image, which everyone is afraid of, which makes him powerful and invincible,” explains Nina Bocharova. — In fact, this is a legal way to make public your repressed and repressed feelings and emotions through film therapy or book therapy.
Gbogbo eniyan ni ẹgbẹ ojiji ti ihuwasi wọn ti a gbiyanju lati tọju, dinku tabi tẹmọlẹ. Iwọnyi jẹ awọn ikunsinu ati awọn ifihan ti a le tiju tabi bẹru lati ṣafihan. Ati ni aanu pẹlu awọn akikanju "buburu", Ojiji ti eniyan ni aye lati wa siwaju, lati gba, botilẹjẹpe kii ṣe fun igba pipẹ.
Nipa ibakẹdun pẹlu awọn ohun kikọ buburu, sisọ sinu awọn aye arosọ wọn, a ni aye lati lọ si ibiti a kii yoo lọ ni igbesi aye lasan. A le embody wa "buburu" ala ati ipongbe nibẹ, dipo ti a túmọ wọn sinu otito.
“Ngbe pẹlu apanirun itan rẹ, eniyan ni iriri ẹdun. Ni ipele aimọkan, oluwo tabi oluka naa ni itẹlọrun iwulo rẹ, kan si awọn ifẹ ti o farapamọ ati ko gbe wọn lọ si igbesi aye gidi, ”iwé naa ṣe akopọ.